Here you will find answers to the most frequently asked questions about sea burial in Germany.
What is a sea burial?
In a sea burial, the ashes of the deceased are placed in a biodegradable urn and committed to the sea. The burial takes place on the open sea in designated areas. It is a form of natural burial, particularly suitable for people who had a connection to the sea.
What requirements must be met?
For a sea burial, the deceased must have been cremated. Additionally, proof must be provided that the deceased wished for this form of burial – through a will, pre-arrangement contract, or credible statement by relatives. A permit from the regulatory authority is required.
What documents are needed?
Required are: death certificate, proof of declaration of intent (will, pre-arrangement contract, etc.), cremation certificate, and permit from the regulatory authority. The funeral company usually handles all formalities.
Where do sea burials take place in Germany?
Sea burials take place at the North Sea and Baltic Sea. Well-known departure ports are Warnemuende, Travemuende, Wismar, Cuxhaven, and Wilhelmshaven. The burial takes place at least 3 nautical miles from the coast in protected sea areas.
How does the ceremony proceed?
Relatives meet at the harbor, are welcomed on board, and sail to the burial site. The ceremony takes place there: The urn is committed to the sea, accompanied by music, words, or flowers. The ship's bell tolls four times, the ship circles the site three times. Then comes the return journey.
How long does a sea burial take?
The entire ceremony takes about 2 to 3 hours. This includes the journey to the burial site (45–60 min.), the ceremony itself (30–45 min.), and the return journey. The exact duration depends on the distance and weather.
Can relatives attend the burial?
Yes, in an accompanied sea burial, relatives and friends sail with the ship to the burial site. Depending on the ship, 10 to 80 people can participate. Alternatively, there is the silent sea burial, where the crew conducts the burial without relatives.
What happens in bad weather?
Safety has top priority. In extreme weather conditions (storm, high seas), the date will be postponed. However, modern ships can sail in moderate weather conditions up to about wind force 5. Light swell is not an obstacle.
What urns are permitted?
Only biodegradable urns that dissolve in water are permitted. Approved materials are sandstone, salts, unglazed clay, cellulose, and bio-composites. Metal, plastic, and lacquered surfaces are prohibited.
Is a sea burial environmentally friendly?
Sea burial is considered a resource-saving alternative. No cemetery land is needed, the urns are biodegradable. However, cremation is required, which consumes energy. Overall, the balance is positive compared to traditional earth burial.
How much does a sea burial cost approximately?
Costs vary depending on provider, location, and chosen form (silent or accompanied). As orientation: Silent sea burials often start at about 1,500–2,500 EUR, accompanied ceremonies with relatives on board are often between 3,000–6,000 EUR. For exact prices, you should inquire directly with funeral companies.
Can you visit the burial site later?
Relatives receive a sea chart with the exact GPS coordinates. The exact point on the sea cannot be accessed, but many relatives visit the coast, beaches, or piers nearby. Additionally, some providers offer memorial voyages.
What is a memorial voyage?
A memorial voyage is a trip to the burial site at a later time, e.g., on the anniversary. Relatives can revisit the site, place flowers in the water, and remember in silence.
Do children have to attend the ceremony?
No, children's participation is not mandatory. Whether children should attend is a personal decision for the family. If children participate, they should be prepared in an age-appropriate way beforehand. They can also contribute their own small rituals.
Can you put flowers or items in the water?
Yes, flowers, petals, and small personal items can be added to the urn. Important: All materials must be biodegradable. Plastic, metal, or treated materials are not permitted.
Is a sea burial possible without written pre-arrangement?
Basically yes, if relatives can credibly attest that the deceased wished for a sea burial. However, written proof (will, pre-arrangement contract) is the safest way. Anyone wishing for a sea burial should record this in writing during their lifetime.
How do you find a provider for sea burials?
Many funeral companies throughout Germany offer sea burials, even if they are not located on the coast. They work with shipping companies. Alternatively, you can contact specialized providers on the coast directly. An internet search or recommendations can help.
What is the difference between silent and accompanied sea burial?
In a silent sea burial, the burial takes place without relatives on board – the crew conducts it respectfully. In an accompanied sea burial, relatives sail along and can actively participate in the ceremony.
Are sea burials also available outside Germany?
Yes, sea burials are possible in many countries, e.g., in the Netherlands, Denmark, Great Britain, or on the high seas. Regulations differ. Anyone wishing for a sea burial abroad should inquire about the regulations there.
Can a sea burial be combined with a church ceremony?
Yes, a clergy member can accompany the ceremony on board, say prayers, or hold a short service. Both Protestant and Catholic ceremonies are possible. Details should be coordinated with the funeral company and the church community.